I came upon your comment. It is almost my birthday and this time last year KC, Jon and I were in NC and happy. KC was recovering. Things seemed okay. KC was very loving and we were happy. A year later I am still grieving. Little things happen and I expect to see KC. Funny thing, I truly believe KC sent me "Mollie" who appeared in our backyard. Mollie has filled a hole. I know she came with KC's approval. My friends never undestood loss-except for my sisters. I still ache with KC's absence from our lives but I know he is in heaven with my Mom.
KC by: Hannah
Meg, nothing is wrong with you. But whoever the people are that are telling you to get over it obviously don't know what it feels like to truly love an animal. Even if they've had one themselves. I know plenty of people very close to me that have dogs and cats and still don't know what it feels like to truly grieve when they are gone, if they grieve at all.
KC was a gorgeous cat and a huge part of your family. You won't forget KC and you'll miss him all the time. You don't ever fully "get over" the death of your pet. They were and will always be a part of your heart.
So, forget what others are telling you. Everyone grieves differently. I hope this helps somewhat and I am SO sorry about your loss.
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