Your Pet Loss Diaries

Sept 3, 2012

by Lisa Thomas
(Las Vegas, Nevada. USA)

Happy Labor day my big guy, I hope you are having so much fun, running and playing and meeting all kinds of new friends, or are you sitting by yourself not playing with anyone?

I was reading someone's story yesterday and they said that it was time to "let their fur baby go" they had already went to the bridge like months ago but she felt like she was hanging on to them and she said the only way her fur baby was going to be able to move on and be happy and free was if she "Let Go"...

Well I'm not sure about all that. I believe you can hang on to a person and keep them and yourself from moving forward but I'm not too sure about fur babies. I don't know, what defines the words "hanging on". I could see if I was in total denial and refused to accept the fact that you were gone and just sat there staring at the door waiting for you to come walking through it but I believe as long as you know that they're not in pain anymore or sick and all you want is for them to be happy and to run again and play and just be the young beautiful fur babies you were when you were young, I don't get how they have to let them go.

To me it would be like losing you all over again. I don't know, but I do know I miss you a lot and that will never change... I send you all my love, Mommy is getting ready for the Monday candle light ceremony so you gather all the babies and sit and watch all the candles burning for you all at the bridge ok baby.

I love you always my goofy guy,

Love your Mommy xoxoxox