I lost my "forever cat" Sept of 09. I think of Tybear every day, he slept at my head for 20 years and I was there when he passed and wished I hadn't of been because although I loved Ty more than life itself to hold him as he died is all I can remember and that's a memory I wish I never had. The last thing he ever did was reach a paw up and wipe my tears away before he snuggled into my chest and expired it was awful. Be glad you have good things to remember Oscar by that's how he chose it to be because he loved you that much. Ty would have never wanted to see me cry but that was the last thing he saw. I tried so hard not to but it just came I couldn't stop it I'm crying now thinking about it. Look for a book called "For Every Cat An Angel" it helped me immensely and be strong, be happy, you know the power of his love for the time you had him and be glad he was given to you that special bond only you had with him, he knows how much you love him and always will.
Please be strong for Oscar by: rose
Hi Grace, please be strong, I have lost my 10 year Boxer dog called Tigger, 3 months ago. I ache with hurt and every day I write on this lovely site Bunny has set up thank god for Bunny!! I cry every day, I kiss Tigger's picture look at videos and the vet gave me a cutting of Tigger's hair which I keep in a closed tin and touch every day, I have also had a necklace made with some of Tigger's hair inside with an inscription on back which I keep next to my heart.
I have collected all Tiggers pics throughout his years and placed in albums.
At least we have memories Grace think of all the happy times you had with Oscar, that keeps me sane and I'm sure Oscar would not like you to do anything to harm yourself, one day you will be united with Oscar over the Rainbow Bridge he will be waiting for you, same as Tigger will for me. Crying for them releases the hurt and pain. Be safe take Rose xx
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