Mum, I'm not sure when you wrote your comment, but I just read it now (aug 9) and I hope that you are feeling better from your loss of Lucky. I actually do talk to Taz, sometimes I cry when he doesn't talk back and sometimes I don't. I guess it all depends on how good my coping mechanisms are doing that particular day. My husband and I still cry sometimes and we've just now started to be less hesitant about bringing him up in conversation for fear of me, him or both breaking down and turning into a blubbering mess. But thank you, your comment about me not being crazy was very kind, because it really started to feel like I was. But finding out how many other people out there have that same unbreakable bond with their pets and how they're like your children and you would do anything for them, it has been a godsend. And we have a very close knit friend base that was amazing! Our closest friends brought dinner over and served it to us cuz we just didn't have the motivation or energy to cook for ourselves. It truly is crippling! I will try and check back here more often to see how you're doing. I do hope that you can think of Lucky and smile, knowing what a loving home you gave him and how happy he was:-)
Take care, Dina
Talk to Taz... by: Mum/Scotland
Your tribute to Taz touched me because I want to share my story about my boy with others... How right you are it's crippling it's only been a few days since I lost Lucky and I want to talk about him all the time.. But I can't because I am being told to "move on".
The only thing I can share with you that helps me is talking to Lucky when I am alone I know it sounds CRAZY but it eases the pain only for a short while.
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